The reason, of course, is my wonderful large poodle 8 årsdag! It should be celebrated! You are welcome to contribute gifts of all kinds except liver slices because he rates them, as well as toothpicks.
What would I be without Rufus! So much he has given me, showed me and made me realize these 8 år! A good dog, a good relationship with a four-legged animal, it is worth a lot, yea, even so that in certain phases of a human life they may be of greater use than talking men. Så är det.
Maria Kulle and I visit the sofa on Thursday's Nyhetmorgon to talk about Friday's premiere of The Destroyer. It is, of course, very good that the Destroyer is being noticed in this way because we need to talk more about psychological violence in our society. The victims are many and it all costs money, om inte annat.
I knew nothing about this until I was methodically worn down by it.
He was skilled, he had it in him, that people with psychopathic personality disorders have, but he also studied it extra! In his psychopathic spare time. He took various courses in manipulating other people, one of them was called ” Stealing the spirit” and existed in the form of a whole pile of videocassettes in the basement. Another was hypnosis – and not just any hypnosis, but with the stated enticing matter of taking power over the will of others in order to overcome sex, pengar, wealth, as it said in the American cover. I found this when we finally got him out.
We also found a number on a DVD left behind ” lessons ” in how to win sex from uninterested women.
Except he was constantly practicing his skills on just about everyone in his various arenas. which is completely natural when you are a person with a psychopathic disorder, because all others are only tools for oneself, and one lacks feelings of regret , debt , responsibility and honor. One lacks affective empathy. But you understand empathy, so one is skilled at playing on it and with it, with the rest of us who are more normal minded.
But there is, of course, psychological violence practiced in a different way than this methodical one, originating in a miswired brain, which is therefore not possible to heal. There is a palette of psychological violence and regardless of its origin, it must be lifted – just as they have worked for decades to expose what sexual violence really is and to spread the understanding that the victims are not complicit , may even have to blame themselves for having been subjected to violence. It has taken decades to work through old prejudices, ideas and deeply imprinted wrong conclusions – the same thing must happen with the psychological violence.
So it's simply great that the Destroyer now also exists as a piece, and that in this way it can reach new and perhaps different audiences and also reach the recipients in a more immediate way, than the strenuous reading of 586 pages.
Maria Kulle, on stage in The Destroyer, and I will sit around for a while 08.45 in NEWS MORNING'S couch the 23 februari.
