DATING: He had sex with you before the first date!

I have been fortunate not to encounter so many of them on my very short online dating path. My daughter and son in law put me out one evening and a few hours I had 487 likes? It was really nice pictures of me so that was why, not fully correspond to reality,. I cleared away most, eventually it was maybe fourteen remaining. My dating period lasted maybe ten days, Then I became very tired. I was very spirited first, When I saw that there were many more pleasing men than I had imagined. But now I have taken me away from the site. Right what it is maybe I set out me again, när andan faller på, but I really have not the time now. It can almost make of the fact that I write a blog on a Saturday night. How fun, she? But the fact is it that I have to write my book and I would be crazy to have someone who shuffles around in the morning and want to have one's attention when I have to work. I have no time! Not now in my life. Another time perhaps.

But it was not what I would say. I'm a little talkative, I have just discussed with some girlfriends if they'd be a lesbian instead. Considering that the least sexually satisfied all is right heterosexual women so maybe there are reasons. A little embarrassing for man race that is so bad to make their women happy but for this I have already written in a previous blog and read by over 30.000 people which is a good deal.

I still have not come to the point. Maybe I should change the title.

That said I do not seem inviting to men sexprat before the first date, which I am happy because it suggests that he has problems with his own manhood – or how he relates to women. But of the few men I have had contact with it happened anyway. And it was really sad. He was so charming that man, and was so much of it that I like, he seemed to simply be exceptionally good and fitting for me. I have met some really nice good men, but he had the right SVIRRET about his being plus some lines that I fall for. So he began to write, then perhaps in our fifth letter contact, that he was on spas in Central Europe where everyone was naked, men and women mixed, and he had seen between the lightly parted thighs at a fairly attractive woman lying in a sauna and imagined her in life finer anatomy. Men tänk, In this context, it was not erotic. Although he is a very sexual person. Otherwise it will be when Miss H ( jag ) seductively undresses garment after garment… mmmm. And so he wrote a bit more about how that moment would shape up.

Va? I thought it was… uh… dull. BORING. This approach to, with six focus, has been through, as a woman, since you were a teenager. Come up with something new! I replied that it was like being in the middle of the enticing exciting dance of the approach being pushed into a corner and get your tongue run-down throat.

Oh but think that she responded so! I thought she was an unconventional and liberated woman, svarade han, and it was just that I fell for, but no, really, she was not as funny as he thought.

But I replied that his approach to were surprised by being right conventional, adjacent catatonic boredom … and that the concept ” frigjord” is often misinterpreted and create more suffering than freedom. To be liberated is to decide about their sexuality, to be free from the demands and old traditions. To be liberated is not to affirm others sexuality, as it is often interpreted by men and thus becomes the demands of the woman / girl. No no, it is not to be released, sorry. And unfortunately, the so-called permissiveness not given us better lovers because only a little more than 60 % of the heterosexual women are sexually satisfied by their male TODAY. I get so tired of it, where the talking and I said that The Magic is Gone, -which it really was – and wanted to skip our planned meeting for why should I waste time on the?

But then he replied in a long and sober letter that he understood very well that and apologized and he had daughters that he wanted to protect against … ja, precisely these things… Öh… but why run the thing as, may wonder? Anyway, I gave him a second chance and the fun started again and I chose to forget the things that I thought were …. BORING.

How we met. And I just thought Yeeha and wanted to pull him across the table and kiss him directly but because you should not be hasty to let me be. We clicked immediately, drank some champagne in the Old Town and ate good food and had fun. But he did not come home. Then he became sour. Why would I take him home if I did not feel like it 100 procent? Do you have to be in such a hurry? His ego was hurt. His self-esteem. But I did not even feel sorry for him for the sake of it, and although it confused him, he said, because women's hearts are usually opened when'm sorry dog ​​but I said ouch ouch ouch, if you try it pulls me all the earth ( I have already gone on so it slapped on it). But he was disappointed because he had poured into me a lot of alcohol to make me ”conformable” he said with some irony but of course also some truth! I had just laughed and flamsat and had fun and attracted and incited him for several hours and then vadå? Thank you thank you hey you take your taxi, There it is, thanks for tonight!

Ja? I wanted to see him again, sa jag. Was not enough?

Later that night I learned that I was not only conventional and unfree made. He knew now that I also denied my feelings. Actually, I wanted to devote myself to him but kept my knees close together and slipped down into the subway because I was afraid of not being able to guard my sacred principle! It's just your sacred principle it is about?

If you get tired? If you get sobriety? You bet. As well as… not again? Va? What a feeble echo of times past. Does it never end?

Can there be any other reasons for not wanting a man home, , Is?

The next day I would normally work. It is necessary that I write to get my book done. I have no monthly salary and any contributions. I need to clear my mind. Also, I write all the time on the book. Men nä, sa han, remember that your work will be more important than I. You just sit there and mumifieras front of your ” masterpiece ?? – work”… It's very unattractive!

Hm. Is it a good thing to say to a writer? I mumifieras front of my ” masterpiece?? – work”….and that it is very unattractive that I do my job? charming? He advised me under still quite charming forms that, however, he would use his last two lives ( I had swept away five of them already ) by rescuing me from this non-life of writing. It sounded good in itself, tyckte jag, as he put it up. I thought good, he'll ask me out for today's id in little more giggly champagne and laughter and fun in town. The champagne was not necessary but he had said he had a lot of money ( which many men tell a ) so little genuine champagne in the town was no problem. He was actually fun. One of the funniest. But clearly had bad track ”charm”. I thought, hm, yes that sounds good, because I do not actually break sometimes and do something else and it would be good to approach through some hits. Now he has made!

But he had other plans. He would come home and give me a deep massage. He was going to pull me away from my work and put me on the bed. And then he described in detail the development of his deep penetrating fingers made deep massages would go to and that I would cry out for more because I had never seen anything so wonderful. Öh…. Well, perhaps it was not quite where I was OVER, perhaps I had been there if he had not gone ahead of myself in such detail, while he was going to stop me from working…!

God, so tired I fell, so tired that I could not be bothered to answer many hours.

He could not stop though I had said that this was nothing I liked. Then after our fun-filled evening, he thought yes, half in, and started it again as he pulled on the martyrdom and contempt in a glorious but typical mix. I told my ex-husband and said, ” So one approach're not a woman?” and he said, ” Nä hu, it is like sending dickpicks but verbally. ”

Do they think it's so nice to know that you become an object for his kvällsrunk? Should we fall for it? Do they think it is just to themselves in Oamaru? Before you even know if you think about the other, the other's scent and touch and a way to experience the? Han, most men, call themselves gentlemen. And if you do not want them, it's because you're frigid, bitter or guarding a sacred principle. Ha ha ha ! A sad laugh. Ha ha ha.

So SUCK! I mean ” suck ” på svenska. ”We skip this” I wrote to him and within a minute, the answer came ” OK ”

Ja, now you have gained some insight into the dating life. If the men talking about how rich they are and try to buy one with precious gifts I am not able even write, for now I'm tired of this in itself interesting phenomenon.

But lucky to have experienced real wonderful laughing and glowing and singing love, so you know there's! It exists!

Om Christina Herrström

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